Thread:AustinAllyR5&More!/@comment-8021521-20140828042110/@comment-10107190-20140828235516

Hey Swiftie! Of course! I'm always here :)

Aww, I'm sorry :( I know you talked about this earlier, so I know what you mean.

Btw sorry this is late, I saw this is the morning but I didn't have time to reply cause, ya know, school.

Yeah, sorry about that :( Well it's good that you realize that. You're a young teen so ya know, it tends to happen. But I totally get it. Just cause your a teenager doesn't mean you have to do these things right? That's what you're getting at. I'm pretty sure xP

You know what, that's great that you don't wanna use "hormones" as an excuse. That's really mature of you Swiftie, to wanna do something about it :) Of course no one is perfect. I'm sorry Swiftie :( It happens in life, we all have downhills.

Oh, I'm sorry. :( Oh no, don't worry, it's totally fine. You can tell me in chat or something later on, if you want to, you don't have to. :)

Oh, Swiftie, actually I'm Jewish, sorry if I never made that clear! xS It doesn't really matter though, I'm still here to help :) Aww thanks! I love talkin to you to :)

I feel like that happens with books. For me too. I'm lazy with books sometimes. Normally, I would get distracted once I have only read for a short period of time. If you really want to read them, just try to clear yourself from all destractions and read it for a certain amount of time and then take a break :) Sometimes you don't even wanna take a break cause the book is so good xP

OMG OF COURSE NOT! :O Honestly my first thought was "Aww, she came to me for advice! i feel special" XDDDD no but really, don't say that, it's totally fine :)

I get it. You know, I can relate. Not with this particular situation, but I can relate to that situation where you are trying to stick with a routine but it kinda slips up soon. It takes a long time to stay with a routine so naturally. I'm gonna try and make this short but....

It's like when I decided I wanted to be a happier person. I wanted to be more positive because I knew it would benefit me a loooot in life :) At first it was so hard to stay on track and not get so upset about small things, and believe me, sometimes I wanna pitch a fit if Chick Fil A doesn't give me enough sauce XDD It's totally normal for us to do that. Because we're human, and we slip up. But what happens is, if you really want it, you need to try and work for it. Me trying to be happier involved a few things.

Whenever you are doing something that is against your routine, then try and stop yourself. I like to think "If I do this, it may negativly impact me in the future." Think about that. And when you do what you consider is the right thing, you feel good. You feel proud. And you remind yourself the next time you are about to slip up about how proud you felt the last time you didn't slip up.

It's easy to be grumpy and upset and against your morrals. But when you challenge yourself to do better, you feel better.

Sometimes cursing is a little hard to hold back. But think of the reason you're about to curse. And then ask yourself if it's worth cursing over the certain situation.

Same with being rude. I'm sure you haven't been that rude because you're a very kinda hearted person, but people slip up. Just sincerily apalogize and try not to repeat that :)

Mkay well the bad thoughts thing is something I am guilty of. XD Err, anyways, I mean, that's pretty hard to stop, normally I don't fight it that much, but I just try to think of something else.

People shouldn't say things like that XD Yes it is hormones but it's not alllll hormones. I happens in teenage years cause a lot of things are going on in your life but you can still fight it.

It's not stupid at all Swiftie! Hey, when you come for advice, think of me as that very old, yet wise man siting in the corner of a library :)

XDDD

Idk where that came from.

I guess I have just taught myself to deal with these things, that's all. Aww, thank you! Really, that means a lot. well i hope what I told you was helpful. I can say some better things but I guess my brain isn't functioning too well right now cause I'm a bit tired. But we can talk but and I can help ya out more if you want :)

It's really hard to control, so don't take it personally. But you will get the hang of it if you try hard ;D

No prob! Of course I do! I was looking forward to replying! :D

Yeah, that's true. It happens with all humans because it's just a flaw we come with as people, :P but you'll do fine! You're smart and mature about it, that's awesome ;) :)